The Key to being successful in this Business!
Become a Self-Reliant Person
What is a Self-Reliant person? A Self Reliant person is when you are reliant upon yourself; trusting your own powers or judgment on anything in your life. When you become self-reliant you become and develop a self-confident personality. Many people think that a person who is self-reliant must be aloof, disinterested or unfriendly towards others. This is a totally false conception. Think about it if you were that way how successful would your business be? By not being dependent, the self-reliant person can relate to others with a compassion and empathy while, at the same time, retaining self-confidence and poise. Able to stand on his own two feet, he does not feel the need to manipulate others.
The main deterrent to self-reliance is the mistake certainty that others are smarter, wiser or more intelligent than we are. And so, we look to them for our happiness and welfare. The person who is dependant in this sense must always reach out to something external. He wants people circumstances, and conditions to do for him what he should be doing for himself. This causes him to depend, manipulate, conform, compare and to compete.
Self-reliance is not only the belief that you can handle things and become successful, it is something more than that. It is having the courage to listen to inner promptings for a hint of the kind of success you should want. It means taking your cue from what you are--not listening to something outside yourself—to get an idea of what you should become. (hear that---quit listening to what others say and listen to your heart). When we learn to read the “signs” correctly and follow the kind of life that the urgings of our talents and temperaments tell us to pursue, we are happy and successful. We are ourselves and we are strong.
Follow this advice for this is my words of wisdom to you. Believe me it has worked for me and it can work for you! Start now and Become a Self-Reliant Person!
Susan Young
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